Europe 2014: Bucharest

After a long trip with little sleep we made it to Bucharest. We met up with one of our other travellers (Estella) from Peru (now living in the US). We took a taxi for 30 lei (approximately $9 US) to go 17+ km. CHEAP compared to the US taxi rates. The Lei is the national currency, also called Ron. Apparently, a few years ago the Lei became so large with multiple zeros that they dropped the zeros and changed the name to Ron, but everyone still uses Lei. The exchange rate is a little more than 3lei:1$. We stayed at Villa Zorba where we had a small apartment with 2 rooms, 2 living areas, and a kitchen all for 6 people. Plenty of space! It was well kept and in a fairly convenient location. The weather was cool and rainy the first 3 days we were there. Temperatures in the low and mid 40s. Definitely glad we brought our rain jackets!

When the rest of our clan arrived (Gramma, Teresa, and Rosa) on April 18th, we went out to dinner at a lovely little restaurant down the street from our apartment called Gaudi. We enjoyed soup and pasta and our first Romanian wine made with a Romanian grape (feteasca neagra). It was a smooth bodied red that paired perfectly with our tomato based soup and pasta. Adam conveniently stumbled on a wine shop where we met two lovely people, one of whom is from England and spoke extremely fast. We went back the next day and bought a few different wines from the region! All were around 44 lei which is less than $15 US.

The next few days we spent walking....lots and lots of walking. I have to hand it to our other travelers (all over the age of 60), they did great. We must have walked over 5 miles each day. We walked everywhere rain or not. Our 1st full day we visited the National Museum of Art which is in the original royal palace. We saw rooms and rooms of Romanian paintings, drawings, and sculptures. We also saw Revolution Square where in 1989 the communist party was overthrown after mass murder was ordered by Caeacescu (communist dictator). It was a sorrowful place where many innocent lives were lost. It was this event in 1989 that gathered the people to action to take back their freedom. Bucharest has a very sorrowful past, but it appears they are recovering. We also saw the Romanian Atheanium which is a large and elaborate theater where the symphony plays. We toured this building and it was incredibly beautiful. The theater holds only 800 people but it looked like much less. It was an intimate and antique building. In the theater there is a mural that stretches around the auditorium wall that tells the history of Romania. Beautiful!

The next day we walked down to the Lipscani District that has a variety of vendors and restaurants. Here they were selling art, traditional candy, and crafts. One of the unique things they do in Romania for Easter is they hand paint eggs. These are extremely elaborate. Easter in Romania was different as the majority of the country practices Eastern Orthodox. They had a variety of church services from Friday to Sunday. We were never able to actually sit in one; however, we did visit a couple after a service and they were all very quiet and reverent. I did not see the outward celebration that we see in the Protestant culture back in the states. They did celebrate Easter with egg decorations in the town squares called (piata). We also saw an Easter breakfast at the Hilton hotel for 195 lei/person roughly $65/person. Needless to say we had a granola bar instead! Haha! They did decorate with rabbits and baskets similar to the states.

The entire city was full of extremely expensive stores like Armani and Gucci. Their sidewalk displays were elaborate and beautiful.....you would certainly see us pointing in awe at the displays as we walked by. Let's play a game.....can you spot the tourist?

The culture is extremely unique. They have a mix of gypsies, well-to-do society, and what we would call middle class, just as in every culture. Their clothing is also unique, but all very different. People watching is extremely fun!

We also visited the Parlamentary Palace which is apparently the 2nd largest building in the world second to The Pentagon. Needless to say, it was huge! It was closed for tours the day we visited, but we did get to marvel at its size and intricate architecture.

Last night we had dinner in the district and afterward stood and watched a gypsie duo play music. They had a violin and an accordion and they entertained for hours. They played such pieces as Beethoven and apparently had them memorized. Amazing! Gramma and the other ladies decided they wanted to dance to the music and started dancing in the middle of the square. A man came and asked Gramma to dance and they danced together to the music. Come to find out, this man (a former priest) is from Ilinois and went to Knox college and grew up in Sterling and had Gordon Speer as a teacher! Small world huh!? We also met another girl who had come to the states for her job....to Moline because she worked for John Deere. Small world!

 

We are on our way to Brasov on a train as I type.......that's all for now!

Kristin Noel

 

Europe Bound

We are off!
After moving out of our house, finishing work, packing and prepping for our trip ...... we are finally sitting in the airport ready to go. We spent last night with the Layers and are incredibly grateful for their hospitality and a good night sleep! We leave St. Louis around 1pm, head to Dallas, then London, and finally Bucharest!
Adam and I can't thank our family and friends enough for their support and help in our move and trip preparations.


We hope to update this blog frequently and share our adventures with you!

Blessings,
Adam and Kristin

What is Driving Your Home?

Week 7 focused our hearts and minds on Our Ministries.  Those in and out of the home.
As a wife and potential mother in the future, it was important for me this week to focus on my role, where my ministry is, where it should be, and how this might change in the future.

{Week 7 Challenge}: Pray that God lays on our hearts people we can minister too.  Then think of some practical ways that we can bless them.

{Week 7 Memory Verse}:


{Week 7 Statement}: This week I'm going to be intentionally focused on where and how I am ministering.  

{Week 7 Lessons}:
  • invest your time and talents where they will make an eternal difference (1Peter 4: 9-10)
  • invest in people
  • use our gifts for others - not to please ourselves
  • my first priority for ministry is in my home (Proverbs 31:27)
  • be intentional about ministering in my home - attentive to their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness
  • devote time and energy to help those around you (1 Tim 5: 10)
  • do not hesitate to offer hospitality (Romans 12:13)
  • do not entertain, but practice hospitality
  • build your home on the foundation of God's love (Proverbs 14:1)
  • sometimes tearing down what is not God driven is necessary
  • guide our home with Christ as the center
When speaking ---> speak as if you are speaking the very words of God!

When serving ----> do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God will be praised through Jesus Christ!


{How to use our abilities}
  1. as God directs
  2. to help others
  3. see Jesus in our service - "Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these, you did for me" (Matthew 25: 40)
{Characteristics of a faithful woman}
  1. care for those around her
  2. does good deeds
  3. raises or helps raise children to know the love of God
  4. shows hospitality
  5. does humble deeds for others
  6. is a caring ear to come too
  7. help for those in trouble
  8. takes time out of her day to help those around her

{How to practice true hospitality}
  1. focus on the guests and their needs
  2. be a place for others to stay
  3. offer food for nourishment
  4. be a listening ear
  5. show genuine acceptance and support



*Hospitality is not about inviting people into our perfect homes; it is about inviting people into our imperfect hearts!*



{Characteristics a Godly home should embody}
  1. be a sanctuary for our husbands and children
  2. be safe from worldly seductions and temptations
  3. where the weary find rest
  4. where the sad find comfort
  5. environment where character is formed
  6. be joyful
  7. be peaceful
  8. be filled with love!



During this week, Adam and I took time discussing practical ways to build our home on God's foundation and maintain it with Christ as the center.  We spent time answering this question: "What is driving our home?"  The discuss that developed from this question was profound and enlightening for our family.  I encourage you; whether married, married with kids, or single to answer this question honestly.  We found it to be pivotal for our relationship and how we build our home and will continue to build our home as it grows and changes.    

"What is driving your home?"
"Are you building up your home or tearing it down?
"What are some practical ways to make Jesus the center of your home?"

{Quote}  
"Home is the true wife's kingdom.  There, first of all places, she must be strong and beautiful.  She may touch life outside in many ways, if she can do it without slighting the duties that are hers within her own doors.  These are hers, and no other one's."  - J.R. Miller

{Prayer}
"I pray for each of you, that you be encouraged to minister using the gifts God has given you, to serve others, please God, and grow closer to him.  I pray for your homes, that you let God lead them and take time to assess what is driving your home, your schedules, your meals, your free time.  I pray you grow closer to God with each passing second and that your ministries inside and outside the home are blessed and prosperous in showing and sharing love." - Amen

Blessings,
Kristin Noel



Preparation for the Future

Week 6 was about children.....hope for the future!
I found this to be an enlightening week full of thoughts and ideas to store up and consider.

{Week 6 Challenge} Spend time with children around you and intentionally make a point to talk about the praise worthy deeds of the Lord, His power, and the wonders He has done.

{Week 6 Memory Verse}


{Week 6 Statement} "This week I will be intentionally focused on my example and discussions with the children in my life."


{Week 6 Lessons}:
  • Make God apart of your everyday life (Deut. 6:7-9)
  • Teach children to see God in every aspect of their life
  • Children have a RIGHT to knw about God. They are 1st His children! (Psalm 78: 3-4,6-7)
  • Tell children of God's love
  • Show children God's love by your actions so they will trust in Him!
  • Children are a blessing, not an inconvenience (Psalm 127: 3-5)
  • It is an honor to be asked to raise God's children
  • God regards children highly
  • Interact with children with an open heart and mind....they may have things to teach us
  • Show children the importance of serving rather than status (Matthew 18:5)
  • Do not be a stumbling block for children (Matthew 18:6)
  • It is our responsibility as adults/parents to share God's love with children (2 Timothy 3:15-17)
  • Teach children to analyze, trust, and use God's word
  • Seek the scriptures often to know how to do God's work

Action steps to living with God everyday and being an example for the children around us:
  1. Know God's word - spend time in the scriptures as often as possible
  2. Use God's word - ineract with God's word and apply it to your everyday life
  3. Speak God's word - share God's love and forgiveness



This week I found myself focusing on these lessons in 2 ways: 1) preparing if the day comes when God calls us to have children, and 2) in the present with the children and families I interact with daily. Although it might not always be appropriate to sit down and talk about Jesus, specifically in a school setting or during therapy, but I can ALWAYS show God's love through my service and interaction with them. I found myself spending more time contemplating how I would speak to the children and how I would engage with them in a loving way to intentionally show them God's love and encourage them to trust me and therefore learn to trust God. This is a huge responsibility as a therapist and teacher, one that I do not take lightly and take even more intentionally after this week's study. I also spent a fair amount of time thinking and mostly praying about the future. Praying for God's timing, praying that I will have what it takes, that if we are called to raise children that we do it right, that we lead them to God and that we show His love. This week's recap questions Adam and I actually went through together and these are the points we came up with--->


How do we plan on incorporating God into our everyday life when/if we do have children:
  1. Teach and model radical forgiveness
  2. Teach and model critical thinking and analysis
  3. Be intentional with our actions and words that they show love and forgiveness above all.
  4. Spend time daily in God's word as a family
  5. Spend time daily in God's word as a couple
  6. Encourage our children to spend time and interact with God's word individually
  7. Make child-approachable material available for our children to learn God's word
  8. Highlight an attitude of thankfulness in our actions and words
  9. Spend time daily in prayer as a family
  10. Spend time daily in prayer as a couple and individually



This was an extremely informative and thought provoking week of study. One I am thankful I worked through. One final note that Adam actually mentioned while we were discussing the recap questions together. We were discussing the importance of preparing ourselves for God's calling and he said:
"Well, it's just like if you were to raise bilingual children. You can't learn the language along with them, it has to be something you already know and live." - A

This was a profound statement to me. God is a language, He is that essential and we can't begin to think that we can teach our children God if we don't already know Him. We are preparing NOW for God's calling. Thankful for my husband and thankful for this week of study!


{Prayer} "I pray for each of you, for your influence on children. I pray that you first look to God for guidance and then lead little ones. I pray your heart is open to the children around you and that you recognize that they are 1st God's children. You have been honored to raise them and influence them, they are a blessing. I pray you own this blessing and take responsibility for it by showing them the radical forgiveness and love God has for you. Amen." - K

Blessings,
Kristin Noel




Put on Love!

Week 4: Friendship

This week was the hardest yet. This week we heard sad news that a friend took his life. This young man was loved by many and a friend to many!

Ironic that it came during this week as we focused on being intentional with our friendships! Our hearts were heavy this week recovering the shock, searching for answers, and being mindful of our friendships! I found myself seeing the world differently: noticing the sun, enjoying the rain, cherrishing the relationships around me, and finding comfort in serving others. Without God, these things are unbearable and I pray for the many friends and family effected by this loss. We are each touched and changed by our interactions with others ----> something to be intentional about!

{Week 4 Challenge}: Write a letter to a friend and thank them for their influence in your life. Mention specific ways God has used them in your life to help you grow closer to Him! .......I am still working on this,carefully drafting such a letter! I encourage each of you to write a letter to a friend!

{Memory Verse}: Colossians 3:13-14

{Week 4 Statement}: "This week I am going to be intentionally focused on being thankful for my friendships, the easy and difficult friendships.

{Week 4 Lessons}:

  • we are meant to be in community with others (Eccl 4: 9-10)
  • 2 are better than 1
  • help build each other up
  • love each other as Christ loves us (John 15: 12-13)
  • sacrifice our needs, preferences, and desires for our friends
  • be imitators of Christ in how we love one another
  • stay in the game! Bear with your friends in good and in bad (Col 3:13-14)
  • forgive each other as God forgives us
  • love deeply with full forgiveness
  • speak only what will build someone up (Eph 4:29)
  • when you speak it effects 1) those you are speaking about and 2) those who are listening! Do not be a stumbling block for others with your words!
  • remove ill feelings and thoughts! Filter your thoughts as thoughts can turn into words and words into actions! (Eph 4:31-32)
  • do not let bitterness, rage, and anger linger - they will only grow and cloud compassion
  • Be kind to others!
  • 2 minds are better than 1 - be a friend that sharpens one another for the Glory of God (Prov 27:17)
  • 2 minds can help one out of the darkness to see things clearly
  • be wise in who you choose to walk with - friends can sharpen, but some friends can dull

How to be a good friend?

  1. Giving up preferences (selflesness)
  2. Speak truth kindly & hear truth with an open heart
  3. Be wise so that you can see their needs, so you can judge what will effectively encourage them, and so that your words are kind and you know how to reprove

How to sacrifice for our friends?

  1. listening
  2. helping
  3. encouraging
  4. giving

As we end this week our hearts are still heavy, but our spirits are finding encouragement through God's word and comfort. This week we were faced with being friends to others in a hard time and having friends support us as we process the events of this week. The bottom line is LOVE! This world is full of highs and lows and when we stay close to God and show love it helps us roll with the waves of this world.

 

I pray that your heart find encouragement as I have this past week, comfort from God's word, and support from the friends around you. Be a friend, a friend who loves, a friend who shows God through his/her compassion for others.

*Please keep the family and friends of Jerad Bickford in your thoughts and prayers.........

Blessings,

Kristin Noel

 

The Ultimate Purpose.....to Glorify God! - Marriage

Well another week down.....and SO much learned!

This week we focused on MARRIAGE. How God designed it.....where women fit into the puzzle.....and how to glorify God in our marriage!

This was especially good for me because from Day 1 of our marriage and even before we have made our marriage a priority. It is sort of a hobby of ours to read books about marriage, talk about our marriage, and work on it! Now....with that said, we all fall short of the glory of God! As our careers have changed and life has evolved, there have been times when our marriage is still 'good' but it could be better and this week was a great chance to hash a few things out! This week was as much a study for me as it was for Adam. We spent quite a few nights talking about our life and living intentionally in our marriage!

{Week 4 Challenge} Identify areas where I am already helping my husband and identifying areas where I could do a better job supporting him. Note: this was a GREAT exercise for Adam and I to talk and I suggest every couple to sit down and answer these questions! See where you align....listen to where you don't!

{Week 4 statement}: "I will be intentional this week in supporting my husband with joy!"

In the beginning..........

 

What we learned this week:

  • Kristin was designed specifically for Adam .....as a helper
  • Marriage is more than friendship, companionship, intimacy......marriage = oneness (2 shall be 1)
  • Important to think, speak, and act as 1
  • Important to separate from parents (emotionally, spiritually, and financially)
  • When encouraging our husbands we 1st need to consult with God!
  • Trust and respect our husbands as we do The Lord
  • Husband has authority in a marriage
  • mutually respect and care for your spouse
  • our actions in our marriage are an example for those around us.........be a good example
  • Be a picture of Jesus to our husbands by prioritizing inward beauty and character

{How a wife can submit to her husband}:

  1. offer abundant encouragement
  2. refrain from taking control such as nagging, deception, and manipulation
  3. voluntarily follow his final decision(s)
  4. Seek to please your husband
  5. be a wife your husband can and wants to come to (be dependable)

I truly believe that Eve wanted good for Adam and was looking for positive aspects in the situation and following her best judgement.....but she forgot 1 thing-------> consult God! In our marriages, we may want the best for our husbands and truly believe after waying all the decisions that we are helping our husbands in the right path.......but if we are not consulting God, we may influence them down the wrong path! Wives....first submit to God -------> then help your husbands!

 

Our main goal in a marriage is not to be happy, content, productive....but to Glorify God and reflect the relationship Christ has with the church.......does your marriage reveal God's glory? In what ways?

Here are a few ways:

  • Spend tie with each other (quality time)
  • Work hard on your marriage...for your marriage
  • consult with God frequently!
  • submit to one another

{Ways of being a good example as a wife}:

  1. make known that marriage is a choice - be active
  2. do not speak ill of your husband
  3. build your husband up in front of others
  4. speak to his concerns
  5. lead your husband and others back to the bible for encouragement and support
  6. be truthful and honest
  7. model productive ways to solve and discuss disagreements
  8. show emotional self-control

 

Wives ----> clothe yourself in kindness, gentleness, patience, generosity, hospitality, wisdom by being in God's word! Be beautiful inside and that will show on the outside!

 

Blessings,

Kristin Noel